Yes, in this particular case both nodes did fail. I'm not sure why both failed. I purposely made one fail to test what would happen, but for some reason both of them "went down". Anyway I implemented your fix and it did work. Now here's another question. Wouldn't it be a really nice featur...

I'm confused by the process for re-syncing targets when there's a failure with HA. How do you know which one should be resynched? I've tried resyncing from both sides and the response is "Partner is not synchronized" regardless of which one I try so think something bigger might be wrong.

My vote would go to free licenses. Can't afford the licenses for personal use, but if I could run it for free I'd be using/testing even more. It's a win for both sides!